Friday, October 21, 2016




 CHARGER NATION: Game #8

 ELCA Middle School Football: 7-0 and League Champions

Charger Nation,

            I want to congratulate our JV Football team and our middle school football team for finishing the season last night undefeated.  Coach Douglas and his staff led our middle school to a 7-0 record with a 26-0 victory over Landmark last night.  Coach Jerry Barber and Dale Albrecht led our JV team to a 7-0 record with a 44-14 victory over Flowery Branch last night.  When I think of their success, I think back to all the hard work Coach Douglas put in with his team this summer in the weight room and in speed work.  It is the same for the JV players as they all were held to a very high standard this summer leading up to the season. 
            Two key tenets this football program has are DEMAND EXCELLENCE and TAKE OWNERSHIP.  I appreciate all of our coaches and our parents buying in!
            Every year I have some kids that have just graduated and gone off to college text me and thank me for the lessons we taught them through football.  They are starting to see that life isn’t so easy without mom and dad catching them at their every misstep.  Finally, they are truly forced to take ownership of their lives in a small way.  Every year I say the same thing:  It wasn’t about football!  We use the game of football to help these young boys become better men.   I think one of the first things a young boy must learn if he is going to be successful is the value of hard work.  First he must be willing to work and then he must come with a great attitude and desire to get better.  This attitude is the foundation of excellence.   As coaches we will DEMAND the players approach each day with the pursuit of EXCELLENCE.  (**Fighting this battle is a war!  Not wavering on high standards is a war.  But, coaches and parents, we must WIN!  If we let our kids be lazy we have failed them for life!)
If one is willing to work hard and give everything they have, then they are going to have some measure of success in life.  Our middle school team didn’t just go undefeated just because.  Sure, we have some good players that help them go undefeated.  But they worked their tails off this summer.  Many of the young men were consistent to be there at workouts everyday that they were in town.  Yes, I realize the tailback, Josh Rogers, is very good.  But he never missed a workout this summer.  He never loafed.  He always had a great attitude.  His dad obviously demands his son work hard.  It’s an expectation at home.  He had a core group of 12-15 guys that showed up with him everyday with parents who have the same mindset.  Guess what—if they all will continue to work hard when they get a job one day they will be good employees!  It’s not just about winning football games.  It’s about showing young boys how to be successful.  DEMAND EXCELLENCE!  Show them how to be successful.  Lead them in the process!  Coach Douglas, Coach Barber, Coach Albrecht—they all did a fabulous job showing your sons excellence and demanding from your sons excellence.  You allowed it—thankyou. 
            Last night after our JV game I challenged the boys to examine where they are right now as a football player and get to work.  Some of the boys on JV think they should be starting on varsity.  Some of the boys on JV are upset they don’t play more on JV.  I told them that we don’t play players just because.  We play the best players at each position and we strive to win.  When these young men get bosses one day there boss is going to strive to win.  He is going to keep the best employees.  This is a valuable lesson for young men to learn.  They have to transition from the youth sports culture of everyone gets a snap to the adult world of you must produce or you are getting replaced.  We are preparing them for handling the pressure of having to perform when they are 25 and I don’t apologize for it.  I know we are helping them become men.
            I told them last night to TAKE OWNERSHIP.  If you don’t like that you’re not starting or getting a lot of playing time on JV then get to work in the weight room and become a better athlete and football player.  Take practice more seriously.  If you think you should be starting on varsity then prove it everyday at practice.  Do not sit around and do what losers do and that is blame the coaches for why you aren’t playing; blame the teacher for why you have a poor grade.  Or even worse, flat out quit.  That is a loser mentality.  We teach TAKE OWNERSHIP: “This is where I am and I don’t like it.  I am getting my tail to work!”  Our varsity football team is full of kids who have worked themselves into a starting position.  Many of them started out as average players or even below average and have worked themselves into being good football players.  They have taken ownership of their developmental process.  At some point in their life they had this thought process:  “This is where I am at and I don’t like it.  I am going to get to work and see what I can become.” 
            Parents, it is an honor and blessing that you allow us to coach your children.  We really do love them and what to see them become all that they can be.  Our goal is that they are great men 10-15 years from now.  I really don’t care much about state championship rings and region championship t-shirts.  What I take great pride in is seeing these young boys grow and become great men.  And everyday we will preach to them Jesus Christ.  All of us, we can become the most successful people in the world and we can grow and be leaders in our community, but if we do not have Christ we have nothing.  We can learn to fully embrace excellence and ownership and find great success in this world, but if we don’t have Christ all of it will be meaningless as we lay on our deathbed.  As I look at my little boy, I beg God that Uriah will know how to work hard and have a great attitude.  I don’t want a whiner, excuse maker, and lazy boy in my house!  But I know this: If he does not have Christ it all is meaningless.  For Uriah, my #1 appeal to God is that Uriah know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior and surrender all to Him.  That he would become a servant of Jesus Christ and live life in and through Christ.  I pray this exact same prayer for your son every Friday. 
Chargers, I really want to win tonight, but in the end it is meaningless.  Chasing success is like chasing after the wind.  It is the values we teach through the game of football that will last a lifetime.   It is the relationships that are forged though the game of football that will last a lifetime.  It is the love we have for one another that will be what matters 10 years from now.  And may we never ever forget this:  Christ for your son is of upmost importance for this lifetime and for the one to come!   

“The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord.” 


Wholly for Christ,

Coach Gess

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