Friday, May 24, 2019

He's numbered every hair on my .... face?

He’s numbered every hair on my…face?



If you’ve seen me at some point in the past week you’ve probably noticed my hair is longer than usual and my facial hair was unkept. To be honest, I hate shaving my face. I mean, I really despise it. It’s uncomfortable, messy, and I genuinely see it as a waste of my time. It’s 5-10 minutes of my time I could give to something more productive, but instead I have to do this because society thinks my unkept beard is ugly. Coach Gess and Coach Graham have military backgrounds so I assume that’s why they’re always clean shaven. Coach McClure has impeccable discipline so I guess that’s what gets him up to shave every morning (although I think he used to have a goatee). Anyway, last night I’m going through the agonizing process of cutting the hair off my face (with an electric razor) and I  notice random hairs popping off from the razor all over the bathroom counter (sorry, Katie). I thought about these hairs flying randomly all over the place and really began to deeply consider them. What was their path? Were they rotating end over end? Were they spinning like a screw? A combination of both? What determined where each hair went and landed? Some pre-determined force in the universe? Air pressure? Movement of air in the bathroom? Gravity? Chance? Randomness? 

My mind instantly flashed to a conversation I had earlier that day with our team chaplain, Neal Dose. As I’ll show, I believe this conversation and the hairs on my face were all working as a part of the providence of God. Neal and I were talking about an old Baptist preacher named Charles Spurgeon.  Today we refer to Spurgeon as the “Prince of Preachers.” Many today look at Spurgeon as the god-father of modern preaching and take whatever he said as the gold standard. I would consider myself a Spurgeon fan, but like with any preacher, I’m very weary to take whatever they say as truth unless it is backed well by scripture. If your pastor isn’t preaching directly from the word of God then you may want to consider getting a new church. I see so many pastors today on social media and the internet spouting off garbage and “feel good” messages that aren’t in tune with scripture. They tickle your ears but they don’t feed your soul. These are false teachers and God says he will deal very harshly with those that lead his people astray. God’s word remains supreme, even over your favorite pastor. 

Spurgeon came from a long line of preachers that believed in the absolute power, omnipotence, and sovereignty of God. Now, if I asked most of you if you thought God was almighty and all powerful, we would all say “Yes, of course he is. That is, after all, what it means to be God.”  Then I would press you a little bit on that and ask, “Well, just how sovereign is God? To what degree? To what extent?”  That’s where most people start getting uncomfortable with the question. And rightfully so. This is no doubt a difficult topic Here’s how Spurgeon answered that question:

“I believe that every particle of dust that dances in the sunbeam does not move an atom more or less than God wishes—
that every particle of spray that dashes against the steamboat has its orbit, as well as the sun in the heavens—
that the chaff from the hand of the winnower is steered as the stars in their courses.
The creeping of an aphid over the rosebud is as much fixed as the march of the devastating pestilence—
the fall of sere leaves from a poplar is as fully ordained as the tumbling of an avalanche.”

So, it becomes clear that Spurgeon believed God was sovereign over and ruled, controlled, and ordained every movement of everything in existence without exception, even referencing atoms and particles alongside stars and avalanches. In Spurgeon’s view, God was controlling how those tiny hairs flew through the air from my face and where they landed on the counter (again, sorry Katie.) 

But we have to ask, can this be? Is this really true? If so, what are the implications? At the end of the day, I don’t really care at all what Charles H. Spurgeon has to say about it. What does God and His word say about it? Here are some of my favorite verses that may help us here...

“In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will,”
Ephesians 1:11

What is Paul saying here? Clearly, all things work according to the counsel of God’s will. I take “all things” to mean “all things.” Not some things—all things. Not just important things—all things. Not just things in nature—all things. Even tiny hairs. 

“The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord.”
Proverbs 16:33 

A lot was an old way of making random decisions or choices. Today we might say “the dice are cast on the table but their every decision is from the Lord.” The writer is trying to think of the most random thing he can think of...like dice. And what does he say? In God’s world, their rolling and turning isn’t random. Every single one of those decisions is from the Lord. And so are all the movements of those little hairs. 

“Remember this and stand firm, recall it to mind, you transgressors, remember the former things of old; for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, ‘My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose,’”
Isaiah 46:8-10 

What is God telling us here? He says “Remember this! Don’t forget this!...I am God. There is none like me. From the beginning, I have ordained the end. And I will do all that I plan to do.” This is amazing. Truly, a staggering statement. But could this include something as insignificant as hair? 

Well, let’s see what Jesus says. 

“Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered.”
Matthew 10:29-30 

Sparrows were considered cheap, small, insignificant birds. One sparrow cost half a penny. And not a single one falls from a branch in a random tree in the forest apart from the will of the Lord. And even every hair on our head is numbered by God. And check this out...Jesus doesn’t simply say “my father knows how many hairs...” But he says that he has numbered them. There’s a difference. To number them means he’s involved. There is action on God’s part. He is intimately involved with us. It isn’t just knowledge, it’s care. There is deep attention to detail and provision here. We have just as many hairs as he wants us to have. And if one falls out, like the sparrow, it’s a part of his will. I think if Jesus were with me now, he’d say “Yes, even the hairs on your face.” 

Now, you can search the scriptures and find many other examples of this kind of language. From there you can decide for yourself what you think. But, I’ll ask... What if this is true? What are the implications? The implications are that I fall to my knees and worship this awesome God. I bow my head in reverence to this Lord and his infinite power and wisdom. I repent, wholeheartedly, for the foolishness and ignorance of my sin and I desperately pray that this mighty and holy God forgive me and draw me near him. I shout, I sing, and I praise the name of this God and mighty savior, that in his infinite goodness, gave me mercy and he loved me.  The same God that guides the galaxies and planets in their orbits and controls the gusts of wind or the rain drops and dust particles and, yes, even those hairs, saw it fit to be mindful of me, the rebel. Why? I don’t know. It doesn’t make sense to me. I would have given up on me. His ways are too wonderful for me, his knowledge is too high, his love is too deep.  All I can do is praise him and live for him.  All glory to Him!

Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name;
    bring an offering, and come into his courts!
Worship the Lord in the splendor of holiness
    tremble before him, all the earth!
Psalm 96:8-10

Amen! The Lord reigns!

Brett Collier

Friday, May 17, 2019

Spring Game 2019

SPRING GAME, May 17th 2019

CHARGER NATION,

            It’s May 17th and it’s game day.  I’m writing this at 5:30 AM on Friday morning and Uriah has just woke up telling me he is ready to get up.  So we will see if I can stay focused.  And, I always have the English majors out there telling me I spelled a word wrong or grammatical errors.  My mom is a reading specialist and she likes to correct me.  Just so everyone knows, I write these things at 5 in the morning on Friday and have to be done by 6 or 630.  I type as thoughts come to my head.  I don’t have time to edit.  I’m trying to deliver motivating content so excuse my errors.  I’ll make a lot of errors coaching tonight too.  I’m doing my best. 
            Tonight we play Stockbridge.  They are always good and talented.  Coach Whitley has been the head coach for the longest time but he left in January to become the head coach at New Manchester in Douglas County.  Coach Boyd has been the Defensive Coordinator at Stockbridge and he is now the head coach.  He has always done a fantastic job on defense.  I am excited for him and his opportunity as a head coach. 
             It will be a fun and challenging game tonight.  I am excited for our boys.  We have a lot of talented young men and many competitions for starting positions.  Our goal each year is to find 22 guys who can play, 11 on offense and 11 on defense.  Some years we have 22 and come years we don’t.  I believe this year we do.  As coaches, we have the puzzle pieces; we just have to figure out where they go.  We have had a great two weeks of practice and found out a lot about our boys.  Now it’s time to throw them into the fire and see how they compete when the pressure is on!




“Take away the dross from the silver, and the silversmith has material for a vessel.”
Proverbs 25:4

            I am sure I have written about dross before.  Dross is the impurities that get on gold and silver and turn it into a different color.  You might have a beautiful silver ring or necklace, but if you leave it out and don’t take care of it, it will turn an ugly yellow color. 
            When I am coaching I go to practice each day thinking about removing the dross.  I believe have the potential on our football team for a beautiful vessel.  But right now, there is a lot of dross and we have to scrub diligently in order to remove the infirmities.  On a football team, 11 players must act in unison.  Individually, they all must have great technique and understand their responsibilities.  Then, they must be able to process and react with great technique to many different scenarios.  At this point, technique is not perfect.  They do not understand fully how their responsibility meshes with the other 10 guys.  We are constantly demanding excellence in their effort and attitudes (which have been great by the way).  All of this is dross.  As coaches, we are going out everyday to practice and we are cleaning it all up in desperate hopes of creating a beautiful vessel.  We demand they come and watch film so they can see for themselves the infirmities.  Our desire is they see the dross and make a commitment to removing the infirmities and creating a beautiful vessel. 
            This is a long and hard process of removing the dross.  Sometimes with precious metals you can scrub the infirmities off.  But often times extreme heat and fire is used to melt the medal to remove the impurities.  Silver and gold are heated to remove the dirt that cannot be removed through scrubbing.  Fire and heat is also used to melt in order to strengthen and shape.  Intense pressure and heat cleans and shapes.  Sometimes we must polish but often times heat and fire is required to produce a beautiful vessel. 
            As football coaches, we are going to do whatever is necessary to remove the dross.  Sometimes a gentle correction will get the job done.  But often times the only way we can remove the dross is through fire.  We will do whatever is necessary.  Many kids can’t handle the dross removing process.  Many will quit.  This is why we say: “Those who stay will become champions.”  We know many will quit.  We hate that they do.  But to make it easy so they will stay prohibits us from creating beautiful vessels.  There are young men who want to go through the fire because they want to become their absolute best.  And this is our aim: To help these young men become all they can become.  To make it easy is to fail those who desire excellence. 

“Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, bringing holiness to completion in the fear of God.”
2 Corinthians 7:1


            For me, football is a metaphor for the Christian walk.  I was born totally depraved.  This means nothing was good inside of me.  That doesn’t mean I wasn’t a nice person.  I was.  It means I was 100% committed to myself.  I would be nice if someone was nice.  But, due to my sin nature, I could hate and rage at anyone who offended me, didn’t think like me, or was against me.  Pride, lying, arrogance, envy, lust, wrath, jealousy, strife, bitterness, griping, complaining, etc.; these were natural responses inside of me.  To reject God’s commands and to be selfish was woven into my DNA. 
            Your boys are no different.  They are sinners.  They are bent to do the wrong thing.  We all are.  It’s exactly what I mean when I say totally depraved.  I have had parents tell me: “My son would never lie to me.”  I am always amazed at the naivety of parents.  I lied to my mom and dad all the time when I was doing wrong.  To think my son won’t do the same is foolish.  I expect kids to lie.  In fact, when I sit down with them to tell them what they did wrong, it is not an open discussion.  I’m not looking for them to offer their opinion on what happened because I expect them to lie.  I understand sin nature because A.) the Bible tells me; and B.) I am a sinner.
            Coaching high school boys, or in your case raising them, and demanding excellence from them seems hopeless.  Demanding that they take ownership, respect everyone, be thankful, be loyal, have integrity, be courageous to do right, be steadfast in trials, have discipline, be humble; this just all seems like an impossible task.  And it is if you look at it in the moment. 
            I say Win the Day, because I know everyday is going to be a war.  Not just with myself, but in coaching these boys.  I know I am going to be disappointed by their behavior.  I know their lack of understanding to what I am preaching to them is going to be discouraging.  However, I am committed to the fighting the war.  And in a war many battles are lost, but it is the one that quits that loses the war.  We will lose battles with these boys as we shape and mold them, but every battle we lose is a teaching moment with them.  Every time there is a battle it is an opportunity to remove dross.  This is a long and tenuous process. 
            There is nothing harder than raising teenagers.  I often say there is no difference than my 6 year old and a 16 year old except a 16 year old has a sex drive.  DANGEROUS! They are young and dumb.  They have no clue about life.  They have no clue about right and wrong especially when it comes to girls, but about everything as well.  And I see a dangerous thing from parents: Parents leave them to their stupidity with no correction.  Worse, when their children mess up (which is daily), their own mom and dad make excuses for them.  What I see is parents running from the battles.  In their desire for peace, they lose the war for their son’s soul.  It’s disappointing, it’s sad and it’s scary. 
            I hear some coaches all the time say they can’t wait to practice.  When a coach says that I automatically think they are a bad coach.  Practice is a grind for me.  I do not look forward to it.  It exhausts me.  You know why? Because I go out there fighting a war.  I am going to correct every mistake.  I am going to demand excellence in effort and attitudes.  Often times their wills are directly opposed to me.  To create a beautiful vessel it is hard.  It is a war.  Sometimes I just want to quit it’s so exhausting.  BUT YOU KNOW WHAT-we can’t quit.  If we fail to fight we fail the most important calling God has given us: To raise these boys us in Jesus Christ. 
            Mom and Dad, as we go forward, let us not grow weary of fighting this war.  Let us not capitulate the manipulative requests and desires of our children.  We are in the business of creating a beautiful vessel.  To not expect it be easy.  Expect a war with 1000’s of battles.  Don’t even expect to see a finished product while they are in high school.  The battle’s you embrace daily and the excellence you demand daily, this will not return void.  Your son will turn into silver at some point.  But if you do not fight the war, if you give into your child and become his best friend, the beautiful vessel your son was to become will never be seen.  In fact, he will either be living with you or in jail when he is 25. 
            We must demand excellence.  We must embrace the war.  Mom and Dad, we are here for you!  We can be your greatest asset as we demand excellence from them and do not tolerate their foolishness.  However, you must keep them with us! 

BEAT STOCKBRIDGE!

“The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but the victory belongs the Lord.”
Proverbs 21:31

Wholly for Christ,


Coach Gess